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Life Interrupted: It's Not All About Me
By Chris M. Tatevosian
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Life Interrupted: It's Not All About Me
by Chris M. TatevosianLife Interrupted-It's Not All About Me by Chris Tatevosian guides others with chronic illness or disability to control feelings of self-pity, worthlessness and diminishing self-esteem in order to keep their relationships strong and loving. A physically debilitating illness is difficult enough, Tatevosian strives to help others avoid allowing this situation from becoming emotionally crippling as well. Open, frank and filled with invaluable advice, this is a book for anyone who wants to deal positively with illness or strengthen a relationship.
A candid and humble memoir about one young man's diagnosis of Multiple Sclerosis and how his 'poor-me' attitude cost him his marriage. Chris hopes others might learn from his mistakes to communicate more effectively and not allow disability and low self-worth to destroy relationships. Chris also writes about his faith in God, and his new wife, Jane, who he married in April of 2007."

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Chris Tatevosian grew up in Holliston, Massachusetts and graduated college in 1983 with a Bachelor of Science in Ecology and a minor in Chemistry. Employed as an analytical chemical technician for seven years before becoming an occupational safety coordinator/consultant. In 1980 he was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. Divorced with one stepson who lives in Vermont, Tatevosian now lives in Massachusetts. He has since remarried. He and his wife Jane, Jane's two younger children, 17-year-old Mark and 21-year-old Lauren live in their new home in suburban Massachusetts.Recently you may have read about Chris Tatevosian and this candid and humble self-help memoir he has written entitled Life Interrupted, It’s Not All about Me.In the book Chris shares with readers, his diagnosis of multiple sclerosis and how his poor me attitude cost him his marriage. Chris hopes that others might learn from his relationship destroying mistakes to communicate more effectively and avoid allowing disability and feelings of decreasing self-worth to destroy one’s relationship.The book has been featured in the MetroWest newspaper (Framingham MA) and other smaller, local papers as well as the web sites of numerous MS organizations such as,MSworld.org MSfocus and the MS foundation web sites. Chris, a member here at First Congregational Church of Hopkinton(FCCH) has suffered from the devastating effects of multiple sclerosis for more than twenty-eight years. Back in 2005 Chris facilitated a class here at FCCH similarly called “Life Interrupted “, which like his book helps individuals deal with the stress put on a relationship as a result of a family member having a chronic illness or disability requiring another family member to function as the caregiver.Chronic illness doesn’t just wreak havoc on the body. It can make a person insecure and difficult to live with, and the ensuing self-pity can even destroy a marriage. Author Chris Tatevosian knows this firsthand. Life Interrupted-It’s Not All About Me is his stunning first-person account of his battle with multiple sclerosis, which slowly eroded his marriage. In clear, pitch-perfect prose, Tatevosian details how his “poor me” attitude, inabilities to face what was happening to him, and his overall difficulties with with his disease tore apart what was a storybook marriage.An important chronicle of a terrible disease and a shattering portrait of a love gone wrong, Life Interrupted is still a very uplifting and helpful book. Tatevosian shares his strategies for coping and dealing with the disease, often treating conquering his illness like a game. He also offers helpful advice on how to manage the sometimes difficult emotions any chronic disorder can produce. Living with illness can be hard for everyone in a family, but as this brave and important book shows, with faith in God, hope and humor, life can still be worth living.Talk radio interview September 22, 2008 on
Sarasota Florida's Talk of the SunCcoast Radio 1220 AM
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Comments (4)
Great post!
I've read this book and it's great! Would you mind promoting mine too? It's Finding Kylie by Kimberly McKay
Chris' book is an astounding read and I recommend everyone to read it, at least once!
Thanks for promoting his book, it is well appreciated!
God Bless,
Coach Marla
This is a great book for those suffering any chronic illness. Can't wait to read it!!! Just reading the promotion helped me as I suffer from disabilties as well. Angela Posey-Arnold
Chris
Sorry it has taken me so long to get back with you. I thought about saying that your book saved my marraige--but that isn't quite true. My husband and I have been married for 21 years and we love each other dearly. But what your book did was cause me to realise the impact my illness has on him. I cried as I read how you realized too late the impact your illness had on your wife.
I read your book while I was sick in bed dependent on my husband to give me medicine and remind me to eat and drink. I relaized how sweetly and gently he does that. I also relaized the way I reacted to him. After reading your book I saw so much of myself in the anger part of being sick. He always being the brunt of my anger and frustration.
This last exacerbation of this illness that plauges me has been different because of you. Thank you for writing this book. Thank you for opening your heart--good, bad and ugly. The bad and ugly struck me and caused me to make a deliberate effort to love him with ever glass of 7up, and with ever medication. I thanked him and hugged him with ever meal he cooked and every load of laundry he did.
God inspired you to write the book if not for many just for me.
Thank you so much. I thank God for you and I have told others about your book.
I have really been meaning to go to Living whole and write a blog about your book. I have been so sick I really havent felt like doing much writing.
Use this message anyway you want to.
Your book caused me to step back and look and my ugly self and the way I was treating the one who loves me the most. He doesn't even know about the book. But, he loves the hugs and kisses.
Thanks again
Angela Posey-Arnold
author of The Nightingale Protocol